Feeling anxious or unsure about sex can make it difficult to relax and enjoy the experience. Concerns about performance, appearance, or expectations can quickly take over, leaving you feeling tense or distracted.
This often becomes a self-reinforcing pattern. The more you worry, the harder it is to stay present, and the less enjoyable the experience becomes. Over time, this can affect both confidence and connection.
- Feel more relaxed and at ease during intimacy
- Reduce anxiety and self-conscious thoughts
- Improve confidence in your body and responses
- Enjoy a more natural and comfortable experience
This self hypnosis session helps you calm your mind and replace unhelpful patterns with a more relaxed and confident approach. It supports a shift away from pressure and towards a more natural state of ease. As such, you can begin to feel more comfortable with yourself and more able to enjoy intimacy without unnecessary worry.
This session will be available immediately after ordering, both on the website and through our app. This is a one-time payment, not a subscription.
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How this works
Smart Session Features
This session is a Smart Session, meaning you can personalise how it sounds and feels, without changing the core content.
Background music – choose from a library of 12 different tracks, or listen without music.
Music volume – from subtle to immersive, or turn off completely.
Induction style – Up to 5 different induction approaches, depending on how you like to settle in.
Session length – shorter or longer versions where available.
Ending style – wake-up or sleep-friendly endings, depending on the session.
Binaural beats – optional background frequencies to support relaxation and focus.
You can make these changes either on the website before downloading, or inside our app.
These options allow you to tailor the listening experience while keeping the session itself exactly as designed.
How to Use This Session
For best results, we recommend listening to this session regularly over a period of several weeks.
You may choose to listen to this session on its own, or alternate it with other sessions that support your goals.
Repetition helps reinforce the positive ideas and suggestions within the session, allowing lasting changes to develop over time.
Narration
Barrie St John
Barrie is a highly experienced hypnotherapist, counsellor, and lecturer in clinical hypnosis. He has completed over 20,000 hours of professional practice, working with clients across a wide range of personal and emotional challenges.
Deborah Dewey
Deborah is an experienced clinical hypnotherapist with experience supporting clients across a wide range of personal challenges. Her work is informed by a holistic approach to wellbeing and personal development.
Each narrator has recorded their own version, following the same structure and wording. You can hear audio samples and demo recordings on our hypnotherapists page.
Created by experienced hypnotherapists, using proven techniques refined and trusted over more than 20 years.
Customer Reviews
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I just love your site. I have convinced so many of my friends and work colleagues to look at your site and buy your hypnosis programmes. I look forward to hearing from you and thank you for all the joy and happiness you have brought to my life.
I was blown away with the effectiveness of your hypnosis products, and experienced the desired effects almost immediately. I will definitely be sharing your website with friends and family.
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