Sexual confidence and performance can be affected by a range of factors, including self-esteem, pressure, and how comfortable you feel in your own body. When these are out of balance, sex can feel tense rather than enjoyable.
It’s common to overthink or feel the need to control every aspect of the experience. This can interfere with your natural responses and make it harder to stay present and relaxed.
- Feel more confident and comfortable with your body
- Improve control without increasing pressure
- Reduce overthinking and performance anxiety
- Enjoy a more relaxed and satisfying experience
This self hypnosis session can help you develop a calmer, more balanced mindset, allowing you to respond more naturally. It supports both confidence and control. With regular listening, you can begin to feel more at ease, more self-assured, and better able to enjoy the experience without unnecessary pressure.
How this works
Smart Session Features
This session is a Smart Session, meaning you can personalise how it sounds and feels, without changing the core content.
- Background music – choose from a library of 12 different tracks, or listen without music.
- Music volume – from subtle to immersive, or turn off completely.
- Induction style – Up to 5 different induction approaches, depending on how you like to settle in.
- Session length – shorter or longer versions where available.
- Ending style – wake-up or sleep-friendly endings, depending on the session.
- Binaural beats – optional background frequencies to support relaxation and focus.
You can make these changes either on the website before downloading, or inside our app.
These options allow you to tailor the listening experience while keeping the session itself exactly as designed.
How to Use This Session
For best results, we recommend listening to this session regularly over a period of several weeks.
You may choose to listen to this session on its own, or alternate it with other sessions that support your goals.
Repetition helps reinforce the positive ideas and suggestions within the session, allowing lasting changes to develop over time.
Narration
Barrie St John
Barrie is a highly experienced hypnotherapist, counsellor, and lecturer in clinical hypnosis. He has completed over 20,000 hours of professional practice, working with clients across a wide range of personal and emotional challenges.
Created by experienced hypnotherapists, using proven techniques refined and trusted over more than 20 years.
Customer Reviews
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